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Cyber Sex AddictionOne of the fastest growing epidemics of
our time is cyber sex addiction. According to Paul Strand of the Christian
Broadcasting Network appoximately 40 million people in the United States are
sexually involved with Internet pornography (2004 Broadcast).
This has the potential to become a full blown epidemic.
Counselors, clergyman, and others who are helping fight cyber sex addiction will
not have enough time or energy to help all of the people struggling with this
addiction. Even more challenging is that most people who are trying to help are
not properly trained in dealing with sexual addictions.
Recently I was talking with a volunteer leader of a local
religious group. He was openly concerned about all of the men who are seeking
help with pornography addiction. He told me that he was spending up to 16 or
more hours a week meeting with men who were struggling with a pornography
addiction.
This is just one example of many counselors and religious leaders
who are starting to spend more and more time with individuals who are dealing
with cyber sex addictions or sexually deviant behaviors.
In an effort to help individuals obtain the best help in
overcoming and fighting cyber sex addiction, I have created a list of my
favorite websites and resources for individuals looking for the best resources
in getting help for a cyber sex addiction.
#1 Dr. Patrick CarnesIf you are familar with sexual
addictions you should know Dr. Patrick Carnes. He is the leading researcher in
understanding sexual addictions. He has authored many books such as
- Don't Call It Love
Those who suspect that they may be sexually addicted, or know someone who is,
should read this clear, helpful, well-organized guide. It shows that sexual
compulsives come from all walks of life, and its advice-giving testimonies by
recovered and recovering persons, combined with the author's clinical insights,
point the way toward healing twisted relationships and reclaiming healthy
sexuality. Copyright 1991 Reed Business Information, Inc.
- Contrary to Love: Helping the Sexual Addict
This book is a good resource for professionals, clergyman, and spouses or
partners who are trying to understand and help the sexual addict. Subjects
outlined include stages and progression of the illness, family structures,
boundaries, assessment, and intervention.
- Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction
This breakthrough work, the first to describe sexual addiction, is still the
standard for recognizing and overcoming this destructive behavior. With insight
and sensitivity, Dr. Patrick Carnes outlines how to identify a sexual addict,
recognize the way others may unwittingly become complicit or codependent, and
change the patterns that support the addiction.
I recommend these books to both addicted clients and others who are trying to
help a person who is addicted to cyber sex or other forms of sex.
Dr. Carnes is at the forefront of the battle with sexual
addictions. He has been treating sexual addictions for many years and has
developed some of the most effective tools for treating sexual addictions.
If you are interested in learning more about Dr. Carnes and his
work I highly recommend that you visit his website at Sexhelp.com
#2 Robert Weiss LCSW, CASRobert Weiss LCSW, CAS is a
national speaker in the field of sexual addiction recovery, he is also co-author
of Cybersex Exposed: Simple Fantasy or Obsession and
Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction and Gay
Men. This book will will be released soon.
He is the director of the Sexual Recovery
Institute and has one of the finest treatment centers in the
United States for treating sexual addiction.
If you are planning on receiving serious professional help for you
sexual addiction. You will find some of the worlds best trained sexual addiction
therapists in the world at their institute. If you simply want to learn more
about treating cyber sex addiction you will find this website
highly benefical.
#3 Dr. Michael JohnsonDr. Johnson offers weekend
workshops for sexually addicted and compulsive men. He also offers counseling on
the telephone. He also offers a free newsletter that contains recovery tips,
information, and encouragement for recovery.
You can find out more about Dr. Michael Johnson by visting his
website sexual-addict.com .
I hope you find these links and resources to be helpful. If you have
additional resources that you have found helpful, please feel free to email Dr. Skinner
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